tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2556494314801577420.post6826062230104694397..comments2024-03-29T00:19:58.724-07:00Comments on Swiss Lark: When did you settle down?Lindseyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04836394671525240199noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2556494314801577420.post-3965563626824487082013-11-19T07:49:55.792-08:002013-11-19T07:49:55.792-08:00Good to know! We made friends with a family made u...Good to know! We made friends with a family made up of an American mom, Swiss dad, and 2 preteen kids. The kids were Swiss through and through, so I know what you mean. When they went to the US for visits, they only mildly felt like they fit in. Their English was great, but they worried that their pronunciation was funny. But from my perspective, they were definitely American "enough." For now I think I am OK with the idea of our kids being just American enough to not totally stick out like a sore thumb while on US soil. For now... ;)Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03053020814428192067noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2556494314801577420.post-25836718976713291152013-11-19T01:45:12.360-08:002013-11-19T01:45:12.360-08:00I think a lot of parents think the same thing, but...I think a lot of parents think the same thing, but from our experience as teachers here, I can tell you that it doesn't work that way. If you're going to raise your children in another country, you have to accept that place is where they'll be from. And as long as you're completely okay with that, then it will be great! :) Lindseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04836394671525240199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2556494314801577420.post-24752517776235218272013-11-18T15:22:58.094-08:002013-11-18T15:22:58.094-08:00I don't think it's going to be very easy a...I don't think it's going to be very easy at all :( I have heard that about the visas and that is our main obstacle. I am almost positive hubby's old company will hire him back, but they will probably have to beg the Swiss government to give us visas. Our other option is Munich because the company has HQ there too, but CH is our first choice. I totally understand your feelings of wanting your daughter to grow up and be American. I am hoping that lots of visits home and from relatives will keep our son American enough, that is if the move happens, of course. Thanks for your response re language. We're considering Rosetta Stone in the meantime...Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03053020814428192067noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2556494314801577420.post-80489359122333335902013-11-18T05:48:24.933-08:002013-11-18T05:48:24.933-08:00Wow!! That is amazing. How easy would it be for yo...Wow!! That is amazing. How easy would it be for you to come back? It's been getting harder and harder to get a permit as of late. So if you can do it, go for it!! <br />We have a really hard time as we go back and forth all the time about how long to stay. We are happy here, but when it boils right down to it, we want Coco to be American. And if she grows up here, she will be Swiss. So we see the summer before she starts first grade as the cutoff! ;) By then, I hope our youngest is two so I will feel comfortable and ready going back to work. <br />As far as the language, J majored in German so he is fluent in high German. He can't understand or speak Swiss German at all. I can understand some Swiss German and a lot of high German. I'm learning high German with a friend who is a language teacher. But the city offers classes through the integration department with childcare. I might consider doing that, too. I think it's important to be able to communicate in the local language. That said, they'd rather speak English than high German in most instances, which also explains my laziness in learning German. Lindseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04836394671525240199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2556494314801577420.post-53654272848499736662013-11-11T12:20:42.837-08:002013-11-11T12:20:42.837-08:00So, yes, I am stalking your blog now. With the pos...So, yes, I am stalking your blog now. With the possibility of moving to CH, I can't help it! Anyway, this is such a good post. The first time we lived in Switzerland, it felt very temporary because we knew we'd stay no longer than 3 years. That meant that for 2 years we were living an adventure, not settled down, sort of in limbo. When we moved back to my hometown of San Diego, we thought we would settle down, and for us that meant buying a house. Here we are 3 years later, and homeowners for a little over a year and we are willing to sell the house and move back to CH in a heartbeat. Honestly, if the move happens, we think that we'd be moving back to actually settle down there. Weird to think it won't be in the US, but it's like you said in a previous post about living the American dream. It's not happening for us here, but we can certainly live that American dream in Switzerland. Sorry for the ramble... and an off topic question: what did you do about learning the language? We didn't make the best effort the first time around and want to do things differently if we get a second chance.Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03053020814428192067noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2556494314801577420.post-42143328454785813262012-05-01T13:49:23.058-07:002012-05-01T13:49:23.058-07:00I guess it's true that home is where the heart...I guess it's true that home is where the heart is - the metaphorical heart! ;) xoLindseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04836394671525240199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2556494314801577420.post-20321541483840211042012-04-30T16:42:06.706-07:002012-04-30T16:42:06.706-07:00I feel that way about Portland, a bit. It feels li...I feel that way about Portland, a bit. It feels like home for now, but I know it wont be my home for ever...cause the Midwest will always feel like my real home.Samanthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16074610638077704659noreply@blogger.com